Archive for the ‘Breaking Soul Ties’ Category


There are good soul ties and bad soul ties, a marriage relationship (1 Man + 1 Woman = 1 Flesh) is one of a good soul tie. The greatest soul ties, and the strongest soul ties must always be in a married couples, because this is how God created married couples. Matt 19:6 said – So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together let no one split apart.

David and Jonathan in the Bible, they too got a healthy friendship.

Now it came about when he had finished speaking to Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as himself. (1 Samuel 18:1)

This was a pure, holy, positive soul tie, as well as a good healthy relationship.

– At the same time, there are soul ties created through very close friendships and close relationships that need to be broken, that the Devil will not get involved in those soul ties.

– Sometimes controlling and dominating parents, as well as over possessive parents can create an unhealthy soul ties in themselves and their children, that their children can’t do anything else, they need to release them when needed and necessary, and those type of unhealthy soul ties need to be broken.

We are to love our children, care for them, concern for them, provide their needs as possible, give much attentions, know about them, have good friendships with them, listen to their hearts and their feelings – the good and the bad, but also release them when needed and necessary.

Especially when they grow up, and their children got married, they need to learn releasing them, the word of God said in Gen 2:24 “A man shall leave his father and mother, and cling/ be united to his wife, and they become one flesh”, and 1 Cor 11:3 said “The head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man”, So they are to create a new family. And in this case, every unhealthy soul ties that cannot release them needed to be broken.

– Fornication – Sexual intercourse between people not married to each other. That creates one of the biggest soul ties, and it need to be broken.

– It is not bad to admire someone, admiring may be good, but sometimes Highly admiring someone or even crazy after them, those can create a soul tie that need to be broken.

– A sexy lady, the experts in flirting, seducing men and women, they can create soul ties in your soul that needs to be broken,

If you’re married, or even if you’re a single, if you got a bad soul ties with someone in your works, it might even be better for you to ask for a transfer of work place if possible, or quit your jobs and works, and look for another jobs and works.


This is for the married, as well as for the singles who want to be set free from soul ties of past relationships –

– Before you unfriend your ex from fb, you might think that “One day I might need him/her again”, BUT THAT’S A LIE, that’s the voice of the soul ties. Take a risk to unfriend your ex, someone you have had an emotional attractions or romances before, you will find out that you do not need them in your life anymore, you will find being set free in your soul through that action, and will find true freedom in your soul.

-David Chawngthu



A soul tie is an emotional bondage where you’re bonded in your minds and emotions/soul with someone. A soul tie is a spiritual or emotional attachment with someone, and it’s a hidden bondage.

Everything written here is outside marriage or before marriage – Soul ties will create an emotional attachments with their ex-boyfriends, ex-girlfriends, or with someone they have had a sexsual relationship with before, and they need to be broken.


– Sexsual relationships: (Sex sin, sex with someone beside your spouse), for Sex unites people physically, emotionally and spiritually.
– Naked pictures and images, and watching pornography,
– Romantic playing and Sexsual playing – kissing, dating, sexsually playing, etc.
– Sweet words and promises – eg: Forever in love, promises to get married with someone before. “I will surely marry you”, “I will love you forever”.
– Ex-boyfriend/ girlfriend,
– Some can even have soul ties with their old works or old home they used to live in, those are possible as well.
– You might have told each others that you like each others with someone, or have flirted, or has shown some romantic attractions with someone,

It is important that you break every soul ties before you got married, so that you would have no problem or troubles with your ex’s again, either on fb, in your feelings, missing them, or in other things.

When these soul ties manifest outside, you started feeling them again, missing them again, and then started meeting each others again, or you became friends again, or you sent friend request again on fb, you started contacting each others again. You started wishing them on their birthdays on fb saying, “God bless, take care” or “Have a good day” to your ex, or started wishing them on chats, which are the signs that you showed your emotional caring and concern to your ex on his/her birthday, which are actually emotional attractions called soul ties.

After married, you usually do not need your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend anymore, forget about sexsually, not even mentally or emotionally, you just don’t need them anymore. If you still do need your ex-boyfriend/ girlfriend inside of you in your emotions, or a desire came to sent a friend request on facebook, or kept on coming to your thoughts, those are soul ties needed to be broken, and you need to know that Satan was the one deceiving you in your thoughts.

If these soul ties are not broken, there are possibilities where you get back to your old girl-friend/ boyfriend of 10 years ago, or you still miss them in your emotions and minds, there can still be some emotional attractions, and a need of your ex-boyfriend/ girlfriend. The truth is that you don’t need them anymore to feed your emotions.


You need to be honest with yourself, and you need to accept that you’ve got a soul tie if there are still soul ties, so that those soul ties will be broken and that you may be set free from those soul ties. If there are anything to be repented, have genuine repentance, and take actions.

Pray and command every soul ties to be broken in Jesus name, to be delivered from every soul ties. With God’s abilities in Jesus Name, and by the blood of Jesus Christ they CAN ALL BE BROKEN, so that your souls – mind, will and emotions would be kept clean, healthy and you be delivered from those soul ties.

If his/her name is Jonathan for example, You can pray,

“I release Jonathan from my life, every soul ties I have with him be broken in the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ, Every promises we have made be broken in the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ, and by the power of the blood of Jesus Christ, let them be broken, “LET IT BE” “Amen in Jesus Name”.

You can do them alone in your personal time, or you can also confess together with your spouse or with some friends, and pray for one another and pray together, so that every soul ties would be broken.


And then Bless each others with all the blessing prayers.

May the Lord bless you, I bless you in Jesus Name, may your soul prosper, may you be a good husband/wife, and a good father/mother, may the Lord guide you and protect you always, may God’s blessing and anointings be upon you, may you have victory over every works of the Devil, may God be with you, God bless you…

So, you can bless and pray those types of blessings prayers. there must be more than those.


When tempted, no one should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; but each person is tempted when they are DRAGGED AWAY BY THEIR OWN EVIL DESIRE AND ENTICED. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death. James 1:13-15

– David Chawngthu